2/3/09
**well as i said be4.. this post will be regarding about life...hahaha... so boring time going to start...
In life there are 2 kind of reference point we can take when dealing with thing. first it would be what I call a "ladder power".. from the word ladder it mean the movement can only go up or down.. so this mean that we often put ourself in a position that we are either higher then the others or lower then the others..this kind of power come with different thing.. it can be a rank or title you get from an organization, the resources you have which others don't, the knowledge or ability you have which other need...
But the common point is this.. this power is not going to be there forever... rank and title can be remove, resources can be use up, etc..
but in life we often put ourself in this position when we are dealing with thing... when we are higher then the others, we feel better, more confident about what we are doing.. but when you are lower then others.. we feel fear, the fear of doing mistake.. the fear of being pointed...
but actually this "ladder power" is not very powerful and stable...you can be higher then others at this moments, but who knows at the next moments you may just fall..
everybody understand this reason... i see many people trying to climb up the ladder , trying to get to the point that he is higher the most of the people.. when he reach the point, he start to fear, fear of dropping down from that level.. then he will use all kinds of way and methods to ensure that he stay at that level...
Power, is it that important?.. I understand that when you have power.. you can let thing go in your way... but don everyone know the power come with responsibility..like spiderman said" great power comes with great responsibility"
so maybe this is the question that everyone should ponder about..how are you going to use the power you have, and not abusing it.. ?it is kinda hard,why?. ok one example will be a mother and a son..
the mother have a greater power then the son becos she think that she is the mother.. a son no matter how old will still be a son.. time to time.. this mother will abuse the power without knowing it herself.. just by saying thing like, i am your mother and i had taken care of you for so long..
so everyone let think, how can you use this power wisely and not abusing it.. **
and I miss you already
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